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Saturday, May 23, 2015

世上最短的爱情故事

冲动又粗心的B血型白羊女,
遇上了
理性又细心的O型处女男,
因你而完整。:D

Wednesday, April 08, 2015

Our Marriage Application Day

This article was written on 15 July 2014 (The day after submitting Marriage Cert Application Form). It was a tiring yet wonderful experience, that's why I need to record it down..Lol

Yesterday was a stressful day to submit our marriage cert application form.Thanks for Jordan helping me to prepare everything on our marriage cert application. Feel very blessed to have a responsible fiance, haha.

Jordan did a lot hard works before submitting the form, he read all procedures and surveyed for non-religious ROM place because I am Buddhist while he is Christian. We prefer to have ROM at neutral marriage registration place. Besides that, we are also having another obstacle, that is, our IC address are from different state. According to "mafan" JPN procedure, we need to submit our form to two states of JPN and displayed our form with our passport photo for 21 days. Meaning that we need submit one form at Nibong Tebal and another same form at Taiping, hou ma fan arh.. If we insist want to register at JPN in Penang or Perak, one of us need to change address in IC... =_=

After long consideration, we decided to have ROM at Moral Uplifting (Tek Ka Huei - hokkien) in Penang! We just need the commissioner of oath's signature on our marriage cert application form and pay RM8 for the process fee.

Okay...initially, we thought we are well-prepared to submit form smoothly. Mana tau~ it took us almost one whole day... =_=

Yesterday was replacement holiday for Jordan, but I don't have, thus I need to apply one day leave for doing our marriage cert submission stuff. We went out for breakfast in the early morning. After that, we went to commissioner of oath, Chan Kam Chee lawyer firm where located at Lebuh Gereja (Penang)... We turned round and round but cannot find any parking lot...aiyo...despite of wasting time, we're forced to park illegally... you know la, illegally parking at Georgetown will kena clamped instantly... During waiting for Commissioner of oath checking our documents, we also keep checking whether got the authority come to clamp our car...gan jeong situation... haha..After commissioner of oath signed and stamped our form, we quickly hopped into car and went to JPN at Anson Road, Georgetown. Upon arrived JPN, we quickly walked to the counter and submited our form...when the officer checking our documents, he found that we missed out to bring along two witness's(parents) photocopied IC..faint...

We promptly went back home to take parents' photocopied IC. Luckily Jordan has his dad's photocopied IC. Unluckily my dad was not at home, so I borrowed my mom's original IC to photocopy. After ready our parents' photocopied IC (it also took us some time to search for photostat shop because I'm still not familiar with my area.. T_T) , we rush back JPN again. Distance from my house to JPN Anson Road is about 30 minutes leh..thus, wasted total 1 hour to submit 2 pieces of paper. Upon arrived there, the time was 12.50pm, their lunch hour is 1pm. Luckily, just a few couples doing application at that moment. After waiting about few minutes, finally it's our turn...I keep praying nothing problem will happen again... Finally, the officer stamped and signed, and paid RM20, Settled!! Phew~~

We were super duper hungry, so we went for lunch first before going to Moral Uplifting to choose the date of ROM. Upon arrived there, I was keep praying that 20 Sept 2014 is available for our ROM date because this date is special for us, it's Jordan's birthday. Luckily only a few places left on this date and the officer told us this date is quite popular or Ong (Prosperous in hokkien)..phew~ after booking the date and paying RM100 for charity donation, we finally relieved our stress..lol..

Beginning of marriage path was a bit stressful... I believe the coming marriage preparation stuff will be 100X tougher... Hopefully we can go through smoothly, Gambateh!!



Monday, December 31, 2012

2012年的最后片语

又是一个年份结束的最后一天,
往往很多人在这一天会很多感概。
除了感叹岁月流逝,心中许多愿望还未达成。
每一年的新年我们都设立了目标,而我也不例外。
回顾2012年,要做的30件事,我可以说完成了一半,希望下一年,2013年做得更好!


分享一下~~

今早看到杜汶泽的面子书专页,昨天他发表一篇和记者对话,突然很欣赏他的态度!

"有一個内地記者問: 你又不是每部你拍的電影都喜歡, 那為什麽要拍呢?
 我說: 這是工作呀?
 問: 那為什麽宣傳的時候還是笑呢?
 答: 這是工作呀!
 問: 你既然對合拍片那麽多意見, 大可以不來拍呀! 為什麽要拍呢?
 問: 這是工作呀!
 記者有點急說: 你為什麽都答同一個答案, 你是不想回答是吧?
 我說: 這是工作呀......正如你也不是很想對著我, 可是你在工作呀! 如果每次工作都這麽開心, 那放假又有何意 義呢?

 祝大家假期快樂!"




今天我也有请假,我的工作没有说上喜欢或不喜欢,因为这是我的工作嘛(学习杜汶泽的态度 =P),所以我更喜欢假期啦!=P

祝大家:新年快乐!假期快乐!哈哈~ =D



Thursday, November 22, 2012

11月杂记

第一次跨别半年才回来写部落格。
这半年内有许多的感触,也发生不少的事情。

假期时,和大学死党见了面,一年没见了,故事不知从何说起……
大家踏入社会都超过一年了,发现当年你我毫无烦恼的笑容都渐渐消失了。
心里的千言万语,真的无法一一表达,唯有大家互相抱怨、安慰对方、安抚内心的忧愁。

一直以来,我都扮演着乐观者的角色,很少向朋友大吐苦水,我也不介意朋友向我吐苦水,证明我对他们也很重要,可惜我人生经历不多,也不怎么懂得什么人生大道理,我算是很有耐心的倾听者,希望他们大吐苦水后,心情会好些,我只能做到这些。

25岁的我,开始对事业抱着好胜心态,看到身边亲戚朋友事业有成,自己感到越来越自卑。一年内,我拥有许多跳槽的机会,但是它们不是我想要的待遇,只好还是留在原地等待良机。等待之余,我学习着人际沟通技巧和英语来提升自己,我一直相信好机会将会到来。

我对爱情观也是一样,越来越严谨了,我真的无法像当年一样,毫无顾虑地接受对方,那股冲动,在我失恋后,也渐渐消失。
有时候,我问自己,面对爱情,是否应该顺其自然些,给自己机会去开始一段感情,过后才慢慢去经营?唉,不该顾虑太多了,真害怕我会孤独终老!T_T
但是,现阶段,我没明确的目标,也没有明确的追求者,难免会少少的空虚感。= (
还好,最近学了近两个月的乌克丽丽,我想不到对这种乐器的兴趣越来越加深,它的音律较偏向活泼音旋,每晚随着有点生疏撥弦技巧配上我走音的歌声,之后就可以愉快地入眠了!=)

每次向朋友提起我正在学习乌克丽丽,十个里九个都会问:“乌克丽丽? 那是什么??”。
乌克丽丽就是ukulele - 夏威夷四弦琴,通常去海边,会玩着这种乐器唱着“浪花一朵朵”或“小手拉大手”来营造欢乐气氛。
(我的好朋友们,几时要去海边游玩呢?哈哈哈~ :-P)

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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

会聊天?能聊天?

有一天,我和家人一起收看大陆最受欢迎的相亲节目《非诚勿扰》,乐嘉老师分析了会聊天和能聊天的区别。
他说:“会聊天的人是会聊别人感兴趣的话题,能聊天的人会聊自己感兴趣的话题。”
由此,我开始观察身边的人。我发现,身边的亲戚朋友都是属于“能聊天”的人,“会聊天”的朋友则反之甚少。

能聊天的人可能会比较有点自我;
会聊天的人比较能照料别人的思路。

能聊天的人比较爱发表自己的意见,可能常常抛出无聊的话题,但是在僵硬的气氛下,真的需要能聊天的人把安静的气氛炒热起来。
会聊天的人比较会考虑到人情世故,拥有许多认知和兴趣,会发问,聊出较有意义的话题,比较让人容易接受,产生好感。

说到最后,而我是会聊天还是能聊天的人呢?我也不是很肯定,因为和较不熟悉的朋友,会去聆听和简单地聊一聊他们兴趣的话题……Eerrmm......应该不算是很会聊天的人吧~ ;然而,和“熟到烂”朋友一起,他们得委屈地听我的故事,哈哈!其实,我早已发现这点,我得改一改,少说自己的事。

要当个会聊天的朋友,必须多点阅读,多点聆听,少点炫耀,了解时事,分析观察,培养多种类的兴趣,会聊天的人真的得下不少功夫啊~



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